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The Day I Discovered My Wife Was Cheating

How Good Friday Marked the Death of My Marriage

9 min readApr 12, 2022

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The OTHER Day I Discovered My Wife Was Cheating

This is part 4 in a continuing series about the story of finding out my wife was cheating on me. If you want to see how the story started…

8 min readJul 5, 2022

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The Trial Separation

This is part 5 in a continuing series about the story of finding out my wife was cheating on me. If you want to see how the story started…

6 min readOct 28, 2022

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Why Won’t You Kiss Me? Lies, Curiosity, Secrets, and the Trauma I’m Still H

Why won’t you kiss me?

10 min readApr 14, 2024

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How the Journey Started: Ending Reconciliation With My Ex-wife. Again.

Photo by Brett Jordan: https://www.pexels.com/photo/brown-wooden-blocks-on-white-table-11344332/

13 min readMar 29, 2024

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How the Journey Started: Ending Reconciliation With My Ex-wife. Again.

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Undoing Words of Advice to My Kids and Realizing How Messed up My Head Was After Divorce

I created an email address for both of my kids, shortly after they were born so I could capture milestones, random day-in-the-life stories…

3 min readFeb 18, 2024

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Undoing Words of Advice to My Kids and Realizing How Messed up My Head Was After Divorce

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Casting Stones at Elon Musk and My Ex-wife: The Unexpected Conversation With My Kids About Judging…

Last month I was driving my kids to my aunt’s house for an early Christmas get-together. We were exiting the freeway when they asked me who…

9 min readJan 16, 2024

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Casting Stones at Elon Musk and My Ex-wife: The Unexpected Conversation With My Kids About Judging…

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From Hot, to Cold, to Steamy: The Nights Leading Up to Breaking Up With My Ex-wife for the…

It was early December 2020 and I’d just spent Thanksgiving with my “family” of four — my two kids and my ex-wife who I was trying to…

8 min readJan 4, 2024

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From Hot, to Cold, to Steamy: The Nights Leading Up to Breaking Up With My Ex-wife for the…

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“I Don’t Want to See Her Hurt” Was the Biggest Lie I Told Myself in a Relationship

I was sitting on my therapist’s couch explaining why I was still with my girlfriend. I felt like the honor student sitting in the…

9 min readNov 15, 2023

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“I Don’t Want to See Her Hurt” Was the Biggest Lie I Told Myself in a Relationship

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1,529 Days Later, My Divorce Is Final.

Two weeks ago I went for a run at lunch and, as I always do at that time of day, stopped by my mailbox to grab the mail. The mail was more…

4 min readNov 5, 2023

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I’m a divorced dad reassembling life after my marriage ended unexpectedly. It’s been a ride, but I’m happier now than I was before. Hoping to help others.

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